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The Courage to Be Disliked
This book challenged a belief I hadn’t even realized I was carrying: that if I just worked harder, fixed more things, “healed” the right way, then I’d finally be good enough. Then I’d finally belong.
The Weekly Fix
This book challenged a belief I hadn’t even realized I was carrying: that if I just worked harder, fixed more things, “healed” the right way, then I’d finally be good enough. Then I’d finally belong.
The Weekly Fix | 8.4.25 At the end of last year, during my performance review, my boss looked at me through the screen, gave a small grin, and said: “Nic… have you ever had Vegemite?” I smiled. I already knew where this was going. “You either love it… or
Dealing with Unconscious Incompetence Ever feel like you’re losing your mind... over a calendar? I once opened a project plan I’d built—complete with carefully mapped deliverables and internal due dates—only to find every single task now scheduled on the exact same day as the final publish
“Everyone says ‘congrats’—but all I feel is pressure.” “I used to know what I was doing. Now I’m just guessing.” “People are looking at me for answers… I’m still looking for the manual.” “Was this a mistake? Am I a mistake?” “I want to lead. I just
⚠️ Casual Project Management Will Get Your Fired⚠️ I’m currently behind on my project paperwork. Again. Not because I don’t know how to write a charter or outline a milestone path - But because, in the thick of meetings, stakeholder updates, and supporting teams through chaos, it’s the
The Fix Files
You tell yourself you’re just being cautious. That waiting is smart. Strategic. But be honest: You’re not stuck at the fork in the road. You’ve set up camp there. Because you’re not avoiding the decision— you’ve already made one.
Applied Strategy
You’re doing the most. But it looks like you’re doing the least. Because none of it is documented. 👀 You answer the late-night questions. You fix the stuff nobody sees. You make sure the launch actually launches.
“It’s not that you’ve done nothing. It’s that somehow, you’re not where you wanted to be by now—and that comparison makes it feel like you’ve failed.”
The Cost of Staying Stuck Staying stuck feels deceptively safe. You know the terrain. You’ve memorized the exits. You’ve learned how to shrink your needs, dull your instincts, and rationalize your way through another day. But here’s the truth: Familiarity isn’t the same as security.
Despite these warnings, NASA officials proceeded with the launch, pressured by schedule commitments and media attention. The lack of proper communication between engineers and NASA leadership led to the catastrophic decision to launch the Challenger under unsafe conditions.
Set boundaries, recharge, and thrive—without burning out. In 2022, I hit a wall. Burnout hit me hard. Every day felt impossible—I couldn’t even get out of bed, let alone lead my team. When I looked for help, all I heard was, “We’re all tired, it’ll pass.”
One big idea each Monday to help you get unstuck and take action. Strategy, case studies, and grounded guidance to move your life forward—one fix at a time.
You’re managing everyone else’s fires while your own desk is burning. It feels noble. But it’s costing you. And worse? It’s costing your team real visibility.
The Quiet Weight We’re All Carrying In 2020, we all said: “When things go back to normal…” But normal never came back. And eventually, we stopped asking.
You’re not disorganized—you’re unstructured. Let’s build a system that works with your life, not against it. Let me know when you’re ready to prep the socials or write your intro blurb for The Fix Files!
Most leaders don’t have a technology problem. They have a people and process problem. But solving for that requires facing the mess and that’s where a lot of execs tap out.
You start strong. Bursts of energy. New tabs. New notebooks. Big plans. But somewhere between “this is exciting” and “this is complete,” something short-circuits. You stall. You switch. You start something else.
“It’s not that you’ve done nothing. It’s that somehow, you’re not where you wanted to be by now—and that comparison makes it feel like you’ve failed.”
The Cost of Staying Stuck Staying stuck feels deceptively safe. You know the terrain. You’ve memorized the exits. You’ve learned how to shrink your needs, dull your instincts, and rationalize your way through another day. But here’s the truth: Familiarity isn’t the same as security.
“You’ve outgrown something—but fear is whispering that this might be as good as it gets. The truth? It’s not. But that fear is real, and it’s keeping you stuck.”
“Let’s say it out loud: you need to earn more money than you’re making right now. That’s not selfish. That’s survival.”
The 2013 launch of Healthcare.gov was intended to provide a seamless experience for Americans to purchase health insurance under the Affordable Care Act. Instead, it became a high-profile failure.
The Washington Metro’s Silver Line project was one of the most ambitious transportation expansions in the region, intended to provide access to northern Virginia and Washington Dulles International Airport. However, the project faced numerous delays, cost overruns, and communication breakdowns
In 2011, HP acquired British software company Autonomy for $11 billion in a deal that was supposed to bolster HP’s position in enterprise software. However, just a year later, HP wrote down $9 billion from the acquisition, citing fraud and mismanagement.